So I was left 100% for someone else. We are a year further and they are living together. He is so happy. It feels so unfair, being replaced like you were nothing.
It is so hard but what helps me now; I don’t want to be her. She is in my shadow. His family loves me so much and they all know what hr did. She is also up against incredible competition (me). He himself told his family “ I know Michelle is hard to replace”. She is less than me. Even if she didn’t have this label of “ home-wrecker” or “ girl he left Michelle for”… she is not as smart, funny, or compassionate. His dad loved me, told me I was his favorite. He used to look at me with tears of laughter in his eyes, saying how happy he was to have me in his family. He balled his eyes out. He held me and cried and apologized for his son. They all cried their eyes out for me. They all miss me…
This is where she has to excuse now. In that space. Even if they never say anything, even if they are nice to her, it will never be the same.
As for me, she can have him. After what he did to me, a man like that is trash. I loved him because I thought he was a man of high moral standards. He has none of that. A man like that I do not want.
EVER!