I had the husband of one of my ex-wife’s friend reach out and want to talk. He is suspicious that his wife is cheating as his wife knew that my wife was cheating. I do not have any evidence that his wife is cheating, and my wife cheated for the last two years of our marriage without me discovering it until 18+ months in, but over the last 6+ months I’ve learned more about cheaters than I want to know.
One thing I have learned in therapy is that all of my ex wife’s friend who did not condone her affair and most encouraged her to cheat (and continue her affair once it started). Those husbands should know how much their wives value fidelity and their marriage vows. I have no evidence that their wife is cheating, but the chances are significantly higher than most that this wife is cheating on her husband because cheaters enable each other’s behavior…