You don’t need to know beyond a reasonable doubt that someone is cheating on you.
Remember, even if you catch them, they’ll only trickle truth until you stop asking questions. If they were willing to lie to you once, they’re willing to lie to you about their lies…
In the end cheating and having affairs really boils down to selfishness, self-centeredness, and entitlement, and has nothing to do with the betrayed spouse. It is REALLY THAT SIMPLE, and that’s the closure B/S’s truly need to realize and accept.
Those cheaters that shift the blame, gaslight, lie, trickle truth, and manipulate are even worse abusers than those that have at least the minimum amount of dignity and courage to come clean – these aren’t that many…