Someone in my family recently made a comment that “a man who is satisfied and happy with his wife will

Continue readingWhen the Betrayed Spouse gets the blame for the affair

I will give leeway if the person didn’t know and as soon as they found out dumped and told the

Continue readingIf the Significant Other’s affair partner KNOWS he or she is married or has a relationship and goes after them or agrees to affair they are no better than a cheater. They both are lousy cheaters in my eyes…

Cheaters are addicts, and the drug is people showering them with adoration and attention. For normal people, a relationship with

Continue readingFor Cheaters, intense relationships are like a drug to them. They ride the high off the butterfly feeling from a new relationship.

From a contact I have who’s a little further along in the process. 4 years ago, almost to the day.

Continue reading4 years ago my life fell apart, and what I have learned…

One of the things I always remember about my ex is the obsession with her birthday.  We celebrated her milestone

Continue readingThere’s a Good Reason Narcissists Get So Obsessed With Birthdays

They’re seemingly quiet, helpful and well-behaved, an exemplary person. They don’t stand in the spotlight. It feels like they drew

Continue readingWarning signs of a COVERT narc? (in dating)

Those of us recovering from the trauma of infidelity recognize how anger masks fears and insecurities. I’m curious if others

Continue readingWill Smith attacking Chris Rock cuts deep