HE did sooo much for his affairs without thinking about you, your family or the pain HE would inflict when caught. HE did all with extreme forethought and planning. HE groomed his Affair Parter. HE set up a time and date to meet. HE acquired the place for HE and his Affair Parter could fuck behind your back. HE planned what to say to you if you asked about his day. HE planned what lie HE was going to tell you if you became suspicious. HE planned what lies to say to you in order to trickle truth you to limit collateral damage to himself and his Affair Parter. When finally confronted with irrefutable evidence HE probably gave you limited information about his affair, forcing you to relive the pain of D-Day over and over again with each new D-Day. HE did this each and every time HE wanted to see and fuck his affair partner
Can you IMAGINE what your relationship would be like if HE put in that much time, planning and dedication to you and your relationship as HE did to willingly destroy your relationship, willingly betray you, willingly lie to you, willingly destroy your trust in him and every other man you might encounter. I’ll just leave you with this:
HE placed you in this extremely uncomfortable situation. HE broke your trust, HE broke your family, HE broke you without even a second thought. Don’t let him convince you to do something, anything until your 100 % sure that’s what you want to do.