“Tell the story of the mountain you climbed. Your words could become a page in someone else’s survival guide.” – Morgan Harper Nichols
Many betrayed spend an excessive and unhealthy amount of time trying to figure out why cheaters do what they do.
Continue readingWondering what goes on in the cheater’s head? I actually do know.
A quick checklist from a couple of different sources to determine if you or your partner are a narcissist. Having
Something that I think about a lot is a song by The Pretenders, “I’ll Stand By You.” This was a
This really hit home for me and happens more often then it should. Don’t give up on yourself, even if
Continue readingMy ex killed himself after I cheated and left him
Get it – Own your $hit – Do the work When I first started down my road to recovery from
This is going to sound horrible, but very often kids are used as leverage in divorce. They can be used
Continue readingHow do you handle not seeing your kid all the time?
After I confronted my wife on her affair I found this list to be quite helpful and tried to communicate
Continue reading8 Rules to Help Your Spouse Heal From Infidelity
Cheaters are lost within a false reality they have had to create in order to cheat, continue cheating and justify
Valentine’s Day is on Sunday, and it reminded me of Valentine’s Day last year. Last year I had spent hours
Continue readingValentine’s Day and Knowing Something “is off”
At my last session with my psychologist, I went over how I would want to talk about the affair with
Continue readingHow did my disloyal spouse become the VICTIM?