This was advice that I received in dealing with my emotions with my ex-wife, but being aware of how it

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Many betrayed spend an excessive and unhealthy amount of time trying to figure out why cheaters do what they do.

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A quick checklist from a couple of different sources to determine if you or your partner are a narcissist. Having

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This really hit home for me and happens more often then it should.  Don’t give up on yourself, even if

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Get it – Own your $hit – Do the work When I first started down my road to recovery from

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This is going to sound horrible, but very often kids are used as leverage in divorce. They can be used

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After I confronted my wife on her affair I found this list to be quite helpful and tried to communicate

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Cheaters are lost within a false reality they have had to create in order to cheat, continue cheating and justify

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Valentine’s Day is on Sunday, and it reminded me of Valentine’s Day last year. Last year I had spent hours

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At my last session with my psychologist, I went over how I would want to talk about the affair with

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