Don’t feel worthless, down, or even sad. You gave them months / years / decades of your life and what

Continue readingFeel Worthless when your partner cheated?

Cheating is a deliberate choice and it violates ethical and moral standards. It’s a betrayal of the person your are

Continue readingIs the saying, “Once a Cheater, always a Cheater, True?

Please feel free to add to this list! 1, ⁠⁠⁠It’s not your fault, you didn’t cause it, and you couldn’t

Continue readingThings I would say to someone who has just discovered Betrayal.

This is something I have heard from multiple therapists when it comes to my children learning (and understanding) what the

Continue readingWhat Will Children Think of Their Cheating Parent?

When people have affairs, it’s largely to fill the gaps they perceive they have with you. When my ex-wife connected

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HE did sooo much for his affairs without thinking about you, your family or the pain HE would inflict when

Continue readingWhen my ex cheated on me I journaled everything. After everything was over I rewrote my notes so that I had a clearer idea of what was done….

One of the things my ex-wife did was keep in contact with a number of ex boyfriends. I remember one,

Continue readingOne thing my ex did was to keep in contact with ex boyfriends….

There’s a doctor named Don-David Lusterman who had done a lot of research on infidelity and has a list of

Continue readingTo those who were cheated on did you want to know details of the affair?

You always tell the other Betrayed Spouse The following is what I sent the betrayed husband of my ex-fiancé’s AP

Continue readingYou ALWAYS tell the Betrayed Spouse

Something that was told to me which I share often. Being cheated on is like sleeping in your house and

Continue readingMy spouse does not understand what they did to me.